Archive for May, 2012

Putting Afghanistan in the Red Circle

Sunday, May 27th, 2012

Something interesting is happening.

This guy who trained snipers? His ability to put things squarely in the crosshairs — to focus on an issue with that signature intensity and clarity of concentration we dubbed the red circle — is gaining attention beyond the narrower confines of his nominal expertise.

SOFREP-MSNBC-660x320Commentators in the media are starting to turn to him for his perspective on larger issues.

Like foreign policy. Like, for instance, whether what we’re doing in Afghanistan makes sense, and if so, why, and if not, why not.

One thing I’ve found so refreshing about working with Brandon is his common sense — for example, when it comes to political matters. Here’s what he says in The Red Circle:

“In political matters I have always been a down-the-middle-line person.

“When it comes to leaders, I care less about their party affiliation and more about their character and competence. I don’t care how they would vote on school prayer, or abortion, or gay marriage, or gun laws. I want to know that they know what the hell they’re doing, and that they are made of that kind of unswerving steel that will not be rattled in moments that count, no matter what is coming at them. I want to know that they won’t flinch in the face of debate, danger, or death.

“I want to know that they excel at what they do.”

So to tell you the truth, it comes as no surprise to me that pundits from both sides of the political aisle are interested in Brandon’s view of things.

Here is an interview he did a few days ago on MSNBC’s Dylan Ratigan show in which they discussed the Afghanistan situation.

Regardless of where you happen to stand on issues of U.S. military involvement in foreign engagements, it’s worth taking the few minutes (and enduring the rather eye-glazing double-talk of the show’s other guest) to hear what he has to say.

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Code to Joy Joins “Psychology Today”

Tuesday, May 15th, 2012

What is a microtrauma?

What blocks us from fully realizing the happiness of which we’re capable?

What is the composition of the “fog of distress” that impedes our vision and distorts our view of the world around us?

The answers (or at least, the beginnings of answers) to these and other questions are found in a new blog that premiered this month at the web site of Psychology Today, the forty-five-year-old journal of popular psychology, hosted by … (may we have a drum roll, please?) …

— our own Peter Lambrou, coauthor of Code to Joy!

Peters post 5-15

Feel free to visit, comment, “Like,” “StumbleUpon,” tweet, and such.

The good doctor will be posting more at the esteemed site in weeks to come! (If you want to subscribe via RSS just to Peter’s posts at his new PsychToday blog, click here.)

A Navy SEAL in Times Square

Monday, May 14th, 2012

I’ll bet you’ve been wondering, “How can I quaff a pint of Guinness and have some truly excellent food, and take in some seriously authentic Irish-pub atmosphere Big Apple–style — all while having my favorite Navy SEAL sniper signing me copy of his memoir?”

Well, have I got the answer for you!

OLunneys1If you happen to be in New York City for Memorial Day weekend, here’s an event you do not want to miss. On Friday, May 25, Brandon Webb is going to be at O’Lunney’s Times Square Pub, 145 West 45th Street (between 6th and 7th Avenues), from 3 pm through 7 pm, signing copies of our New York Times bestseller, The Red Circle.

Seriously. It’s going to be a blast.

OLunneys3A favorite hang-out for many New Yorkers in the know, O’Lunney’s is a truly classy place. If you’re interested in staying for dinner, I suggest calling (or emailing) for reservations!

Seeing Comes First

Sunday, May 6th, 2012

In 1999, I lived for a brief time in an apartment about a block from a Barnes & Noble bookstore. I used to go over there every day or two to and stand at the front racks, imagining that there was a book with my name on it right on the front table.

I would also go over to the “Inspiration & Motivation” rack in the business section where the parables were, like The One Minute Manager, and do the same thing.

You might call it, literary visualization.

When my lease was up a year later I moved on—but I kept up my regular Barnes visits. For the next few years, I kept going in and standing there, picturing my book on the racks in my head. Then, in 2005, Bob Burg and I wrote The Go-Giver. And by the early months of 2008 guess where it was?

On the “Inspiration & Motivation” rack at Barnes & Noble.

Since then, I’ve had more than a dozen titles on the Barnes & Noble shelves.

About two years ago, I started doing something new.

I started going into the supermarkets, Targets, and Wal-Marts, walking over to their bestseller racks, where they displayed the latest Dean Koontz and Stephen King blockbusters, Stephanie Plum and Jack Reacher thrillers, Harry Potter and Breaking Dawn–type adventure fantasies, and whatever other slim handful of bestselling titles they were carrying at the moment, and — you guessed it — picturing my book sitting there on that rack.

I had no idea what specific book that might possibly be. Just pictured it being there.

And here we are today: The Red Circle is on the racks at Stop & Shop supermarket …

TRC Publix

… and at Target …

TRC at Target

… and at Wal-Mart!

TRC at Walmart

Man, that human imagination thing … it’s something, isn’t it?

Quotes and Truths

Saturday, May 5th, 2012

A friend just sent me a copy of a book entitled Attitude Is Everything, by Jeff Keller. The subtitle reads, “Change Your Attitude … Change Your Life!” and the book’s introduction leads off with this famous quotation:

“The greatest discovery of my generation is that human beings can alter their lives by altering their attitudes of mind.” — William James

… And right there, the author lost me.

Now, I don’t know Mr. Keller, nor anything about him, and have not yet read any further in his book (which I do intend to do at some point). And I have no doubt that he has much wisdom, experience, and value to offer the reader. What’s more, I strongly think the core idea contained within the twenty words of that famous quotation are wise indeed, and I agree with it completely.

It’s just that William James never said it.

At least, not as far as I’ve been able to determine … and I’ve tried. Oh, how I’ve tried.

I recently worked on a book for someone (as yet unpublished) who happens to adore that quote, and it played a significant part in the story. I was instantly suspicious: it’s a great line, but it just doesn’t sound like something an erudite nineteenth-century philosopher and Harvard professor, and the man often referred to as the “father of modern psychology,” would say.

It sounded more like something James Allen (As a Man Thinketh) or some other early twentieth-century positive-thinking, self-help writer would have said.

I started searching. And searching. And searching. This pithy quote appears in a zillion places on the Internet, frequently attributed to James, but rarely with an actual source. I did find one scholarly-seeming paper that quoted it and gave James’s The Principles of Psychology as the source, even giving a page number (290), though without identifying the edition cited.

So I bought a copy of James’s The Principles of Psychology—on Kindle, so it would be fully searchable. I fully searched it. No such passage. Nothing even close. I searched as many terms and phrases as I could think of that might express even a remotely similar concept.

Nuttin.

In my online travels I also noted that the quotation in question is even more frequently attributed to one James Truslow Adams, a turn-of-the-century amateur historian who served as U.S. delegate to the 1918 Paris Peace Talks and (amateur status notwithstanding) even earned a Pulitzer for his writing. Cool! Truslow Adams seemed like exactly the kind of writer who would say something like this.

But I struck out there, too — couldn’t find a single solid, credible Truslow Adams source for it, either.

Then I discovered that James Truslow Adams had written a biography of, guess who? Williams James. Bingo! I figured, maybe Truslow Adams, in summing up or paraphrasing something James actually had said or written at some point, wrote this line in his biography. Could that be where the whole thing started?

So I ordered a copy — long out of print, existing in hardcover only. The book finally arrived (a 1937 edition, I think it was) … and when I opened the package, I found a biography of … Henry Adams. At which point I quoted an expression which I can confidently attribute to a late-twentieth-century nuclear power plant worker named Homer Simpson:

D’oh!

And this, Dear Reader, is where I left off. I don’t know if the book was listed wrong on Amazon, or the vendor picked and packed the wrong volume in sending it to me, or what. I declared my quest over. I had a life to get back to (wife, dog, meals, interacting with the rest of humanity, those sorts of things). I ended up providing the quotation in the book and referring to it as “attributed to the Pulitzer Prize–winning historian James Truslow Adams.”

If you can find a verifiable source for the line, I’m eager to hear about it. Meanwhile, I’m adding it to my pile of excellent quotations that are, at this point, literary orphans.

Meanwhile, here’s another quotation, saying something roughly similar to the idea in James/Truslow-Adams/Anonymous’s sentence, that I can verify:

“You’ve heard the expression, ‘Go looking for trouble and that’s what you’ll find’? It’s true, and not only about trouble. Go looking for conflict, and you’ll find it. Go looking for people to take advantage of you, and they generally will. See the world as a dog-eat-dog place, and you’ll always find a bigger dog looking at you as if you’re his next meal. Go looking for the best in people, and you’ll be amazed at how much talent, ingenuity, empathy and good will you’ll find.

“Ultimately, the world treats you more or less the way you expect to be treated. … In fact, you’d be amazed at just how much you have to do with what happens to you.”

These words were spoken by the business guru Pindar, in The Go-Giver — and I know those words came from his mouth, because Bob Burg and I put them there.